my opinion for what it's worth, CAW is probably just going to keep putting that letter at the top of the pile waiting for you to say something about it..even if to ask what is this folded piece of paper that always finds it's way to the top of the pile.
Maybe she is unsure of what it is she wants to do but playing it this way is getting neither of you anywhere. Sure bringing it up means actions may be taken sooner..but sometimes action is what is needed. We never really want our spouses to move out as it starts to feel to real...but in some cases it is not until a seperation occurs that the fence sitting (even those that think they've made up their mind that they don't want to be with us) spouse realizes just how significant their partner is to them.
