Thank you for stoping by. I wish you all the best for your mediation. To answer your question about counselling I think men have a view that it's only for crazy people, and as our H don't see them as doing nothing wrong, they feel they don't have a problem. With my H we attended marital counselling, it didn't work because at the time H was involved with OW ( it was early days in their relationship) but I didn't know about her at the time. I guess H went along to say that we tried but I guess he forgot to mention that it wouldn't work because he was already involved with her! Thinking of you xx
