Thanks SH. To answer your previous question I am still pondering and formulating my gratitude card project. Maybe 52 is ambitious but I think I will send a good few at the beginning and then once a week !fortnight.

I was hesitant for several reasons but one was that it ressembled the act of someone suicidal near the end. Or at least brought back a similar concept I had during darker days a few years back.

I am taking my time because I have a lot on at the moment and prefer to do it right than regretting a rushed job. But I will start St the latest by the American thanksgiving.

Zephyr I will reply to your recent thoughts too before leaving hete


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together