Your friends are right about the vehicle mileage. My sister has driven her cars up into the 200,000 range and when they start giving her trouble, she then trades them in. I'm glad you opted to wait on that...and just think...you can now use some of that money to get new countertops! Do you any idea what kind you want and the color?
As for your h, you aren't the only one that enjoys Ghost Adventures...I love watching it too! It's fun entertainment and you get to see some places that you've never been before. I'm glad you spoke up about this show. I'm sure it shocked him just a wee bit that you spoke up...but that's good.
It takes a long time to finally drop the rope, but you are doing really great. Being a friend to him is the best way to go right now because you are comfortable w/that and can actually say what's on your mind, i.e., just as you would a friend. After all, didn't we all start out as friends w/our spouses and go from there?
You are doing great! Keep up the good work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
