Quote: I wish I had some words of wisdom to offer you.
I can understand your frustration. And your resolve to not play second fiddle.
The best solution I can see is to allow her to leave. But only because you've tried everything else. I know that's a huge risk to take...and scary as heck. And I know that it's not what you want.
Well, it's early here too and I have no coffee. So maybe my mind is limited. But I agree with the above.
I think you've got the DB skills, you've done so many things right. But clearly something needs to change up here.
Perhaps a separation is what is needed to get to other side. I can't say for sure. Only can say that yes, you need to do something different now... for your own self as much as for the R.
