Hi Mleigh, I've been wondering how you are. It's good to hear from you!
I did laugh out loud that your h was concerned about whether or not you believed the show. That sounds like a great opportunity to start messing with him. Next time he shows up, you should definitely have a male friend (he doesn't know. come over and perform an exorcism as your h is arriving. You can tell him you hear a dog taking to you. Lol!
As I've said before, I imagine it is harder to detach from your h because he is for the most part a pretty nice guy.
Good for you in standing your ground and communicating to him what you need as a friend.
Your plans all sound super fun!
P.S. If you need any parts for your car, let me know as it's turning into the Auto Zone over here.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced