Hi KAW,

You have been such a huge help to me.

I wish I had some words of wisdome to offer you.

I can understand your frustration. And your resolve to not play second fiddle.

The best solution I can see is to allow her to leave. But only because you've tried everything else. I know that's a huge risk to take...and scary as heck. And I know that it's not what you want.

Maybe it's just too early in the morning, but I can't come up with any other solutions at this point.

But I will keep pondering.

Sending you hugs.

PIB