thank you, Cadet. I have read that post 3 times and I totally am convinced it is right. MY question was related to other comments I have read on this subject that a LBS who was emotionally distant (or perceived to be) might find it backfires because it is perceived as "same old situation by the WAW.


Me: 49 She: 44
Married: 23 years
No Children
Separated: 4 months