WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Cherry]

Wow, she's already had and spent £30K?! That's like my annual salary! As far as I'm aware and what my L has told me, that unless any pre-nup/agreement to say otherwise, she is entitled to 50% of everything. I was told that I need to bring forward any bank statements, assets ie property, even my pension! I'm hoping that as my wh and I are (sometimes, but not at the moment) on speaking terms that we can agree to just keep what we have individually, I have no desire to take half of everything of his, however if he is going to attempt this on me, I will have to protect myself!

I am unbelievably tired right now so I can't think to straight to give any great advise. I guess db-ing advises us to avoid r talks at any cost, but I guess if it is causing you some confusion, then it may be an opportunity. Just ask yourself a couple questions, are you in any kind of rush? And are you prepared in the instance that she then goes to file?

Stay strong amigo, you're doing good. And just a side note, a man who can cook is very attractive!