KAW, sending you a big hug and lots of well wishes. There is nothing I could add to this sea of advice that hasn't been said here by someone else and probably said better (UGH, it's hard for a writer to admit that).
Just know we're all standing behind you! There is no doubt in my mind that integrity is what "wins" in the end. It is what brings the lasting happiness. And I think you've got truckloads of it, friend.