Anyone have guidance on how long to do the last resort technique? I am new here. Married 23 years - Separated now since May 25 2016 when I took a job transfer (600 miles away) and she said she was right behind me and then did not come. Apparently planning this all along. We still text occasionally and are still friends/civil but no phone conversations. Sent a letter of "moving on with my life" on August 12. Discovered her first affair 2 years ago. Suspect she is currently involved with another man. Was a sexless marriage.
