I tend to agree with everyone else on this one. Give her the space that she needs and Validate her feelings. I wouldn't make this a bed of roses for her with the seperations but don't fight it. With the seperation maybe it will open her eyes for where she is now to where she will be. It will also give you some much needed space to think and do the things that you need to do for you.
I don't think you are back at square one. You are more on square 55. For the last 2 years I think you have seen her looking at this possibilty. I don't think that sheds and more light on it but it is my 2 cents.
