Don't allow the green eyed monster of jealousy ruin your weekend. Sure, he's going to give the OW presents and do things w/her because that's part of the wooing process of the crisis individual. He's doing everything to look like the good guy in her eyes, even if she was in the wings waiting for an affair w/your h. I do understand how you feel, I went thru something very similar, but then I stepped back and thought about it and just chuckled because she thought she got a winner of a guy. Just remember...leopards don't change their spots and the habits of the h you knew will eventually begin to show.
As for the children, well, he's trying to prove to everyone that he's a great dad and is spending a lot of time w/the kids. This may very well settle down in time.
Rouky, it's not about you. It's all about him and this new persona he's got going on and wanting to look like a great catch. Please don't give it a second thought. You were and still are the prize...he just doesn't realize it yet.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
