G I think Ellie hit it on the nail. K is someone I would have not been interested in the past. She is 100% opposite of my ex. K is exactly what I wanted in a partner. It took all these years to figure it out. I'm so not dependent on her. I feel free to do things I would have not done before i.e. starting my own business. We have kinda of a care free life as a couple. No pressure. Well some from me but I'm unlearing my old ways slowly. We really enjoy each other.
Try something different.it just might work out...


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden