In a way wasn't this expected? CAW hasn't been doing a whole lot to make your M work and you have been so pateint with her! She also doesn't realize how darn lucky she is and maybe a S will open her eyes to just how wonderful her life could be. I really think she needs to address her depression seriously if she is to have any hope for herself.
It's so very hard I know and I don't want to say the wrong thing, so the less the better from me. Just know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
