WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Surfer]

Question. So finances are protected by passwords - apart from £75k which my W has access to. She has only withdrawn £30k. I am also paying her monthly sum broadly equivalent (potentially slightly more) to what the law requires. She is financially okay for now, has plenty of new clothes so do the kids, gets out and on holiday as do the kids, just bought furniture etc. But she needs to move forward - either progress the D or reconcile. I don't want myself or the kids hanging on in here. 'Limbo'. But I won't push anything right now.

Not sure what to do. I could write to her via L and ask her if she is going to progress 'her' Mediation (I have filled out forms, she has not - 3 months on...). Could also advise that she must not withdraw the additional £45k as she has a monthly sum coming in - which is not being spent it seems? Sit tight? Not sure.

Any experience in this field people? If not, any thoughts?

Surfer.