WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Surfer]

Thanks Linda

I totally agree in always look for the silver lining in fairness. I am naturally a cheerful optimist. I take people as I find them. I guess your point about "until they have proven a lie" is very true. However, with a WS they lie and you hear those lies and see evidence so often (OW/OM) stuff. Lies to disrespect etc. It gets to even the most forgiving, rational and optimistic of us at times. It does get kicked out one piece at a time, but I am too resilient for that. It keeps coming back! So that's why I am feeling like that. It's temporary. It won't touch my core optimism.

The always planning for the worse or expecting it, I am a little like this at times, again, not always. But I do need to take a chill pill on it. Not biggie, just observing some faults. I don't have many major ones TBH. I have worked on so many for so long. Slowly getting there. Hopefully she sees that but if not I am good with that.

Thank you for dropping by.

Surfer.