Thanks Cherry, I am quite fine, just hate the feeling of her friends stirring up problems. She does it her self too in fairness. She could shut it down. Also I don't like the feeling of being too nice. Then again provided it's for the best of the kids (only) then I don't mind that. Fully dark or cold and being seen by the kids is not good.
I think l stick with what I am doing.
Thanks.
Surfer.
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