I updated my signature to note that my W is a mix of MLC, BPD (borderline personality disorder) and WW. I'm never fully satisfied with labels, and I believe that while these categories are helpful, people don't always fall clearly into one category or another.

Also changed my sig to say that she had a delusional affair (DA). She carried on a one-way emotional affair where OM did not reciprocate in any way, and she believes to this day that there was a relationship. I believe delusional thinking (psychosis) is common among BPD sufferers.

I'm very sad to write this about my W.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final