newbie. sep 6months. Little hope for reconcilation

[RosaLinda]

Less contact from her does not sound like a bad thing if your former communication was all anger and negativity towards you Cessna.

I think the idea of the darkness is to to make her feel the loss of you, show her what life will be like without you, but also to give yourself time to heal and recover your emotional well being. Three weeks probably seems like a life time to you now, but in the overall scheme of things, it's a really short time. Especially if your wife is having a mid life crisis. That takes a long long time to resolve, and anger is one of the stages.

I think you mentioned there's no OM right? Are you guys still separated?