MLC, WAW or WW,,, Who really knows? - round 2

[RosaLinda]

She told me just this morning the kids should choose and that is why I need to move out or they will move with her.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know that you just want what is best for your children. But that quote from your wife does not really make sense - that the kids should be allowed to choose but you need to move out or else they will choose to move out with her.

Did she actually ask them to choose between you two? If not, it seems that you are sort of assuming she is right and that the kids will choose to move out with her. What makes you think that? Did they actually say something along those lines? I remember you saying awhile ago that you know that your two oldest are aware of what is happening between your wife and OM, and that it's awkward for them.

What did the lawyer say are your rights and responsibilities Roe? I don't think you should move out because your wife is threatening to move out and take the kids with her.