Papers are filed, here comes the D. Focus on me

[PsySara]

I may have been tempted to smack WH with a real 2x4 if he said that, haha! What do these dorks think we're doing? The very fact that we didn't throat punch them when we found out they cheated shows we are fighting for our marriage.

Anyways, Dory has the wise. I find I do better with observing after I've gone dark for a bit. It gives me a bit of time to regroup myself and strategize, then I pretend WH is one of my patients are try to remain clinical. I think of it like an experiment, I try something and record the result in my head. If the results are not to my desires then I change up the behavior and note the results. This has made my Dbing more efficient. One thing is for sure, Pursuing causes my WH to slide back into taking me for granted.