You can always amend a custody agreement but the cost to do so may outweight the morning day care payment :-)
I would not get too deep with the S7 on the other guy. My STBX digs into my D7 and asks what i am doing, who was I with, where did you go? My advice would be to just say your mom has friends and if she wants to spend time with them that is really her choice. Just my 2 cents
I have crossed over into saying the family thing before to my D and then felt bad as she doesnt understand that her mom screwed this all up. But ...I think she knows that anyway ....I bet yours does too
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....