Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[JRuss]

Re the 1-2 years, it (two years, at least) supposedly dovetails with when my youngest will be done with the very good public school we're zoned for and will be moving to private school, so where we live won't matter. We'll sell the house, split the proceeds and live the two-home life in earnest.

I'm trying to stick with what cadet tells everyone who first posts here: she's given me the gift of time, and I need to use it. That said, I think I'd be in a much stronger, better place if she didn't live under the same roof as me. I continue to think that's not the best thing for my children, though, so here I am.