(Mules -- glad you came back to help us. Your voice means a lot to me.)

EA implies there was a two-way exchange of emotions.
PA implies there was romantic/sexual physical contact.

I just saw someone use "IA" in this forum: imagined affair. That seems to imply that the person was cognizant that it was just imagined in his/her head.

My wife imagined an affair but she believes emotional exchange actually took place. She had a delusion. She hallucinated it. Is that a "DA"? "HA"?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final