Wasn't CT's advice for your work trip? Your kids won't be with you, right? So there should be no reason you can't stretch yourself a bit to do something just for you.
I just mean that in my current frame of mind, where I'm worried about my kids, it's hard for me to go behave like a single man. I'm just not feeling that kind of freedom.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final