Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[ForGump]

> "I'd rather go out the follow day . . .", but I don't guess that's BD-approved.

Ha! JR, you might not know write from right but ... you ain't lacking a subtle sense of humor.

> Friend-zone

MWD coaches advocate friendship while the conventional wisdom in the forum is to not become a castrated friend. I think what I've wound up doing is to be a good friend in short bursts, but always end it quickly, don't linger. Let her know I can be a good friend, but on my own terms, I'm not going to sit around and mope for her attention.

> when certain conditions continue for a long time......a person can
> become vulnerable to things they never were in the past

Really insightful, I think.


> find out that OM knew nothing about the WW's feelings

I'm about to go write about this in my thread.