The Thread w/o a Title

[Underdog]

KAW,

Enough to make my head ache ... when I get in this kind of funk, then I also tend to withdraw and neglect my thread.

Boy, ain't THAT the truth!

I'm not here to offer advice, friend. You have so much wisdom and knowledge that I'd be preaching to the choir.

I'm just wondering, though, why it appears that CAW always has a bag packed at the door? Ironically, I was accused of this a couple times in MC as well. I can honestly say that my fear of being abandoned was taking hold and I felt the need to run away before he did.

UGH. My sister asked me when Mr. W. moved out, "Are you sure you're not just pissed because he did it first?"

Anyway, it seems like CAW has some abandonment issues of her own... your sharing her clingy remarks when you walk out of a room pretty much nail this one home... I'm curious to know why you think she might feel that way with you?

After being married for so long, it would seem as though she should KNOW you don't walk out?

I dunno. Just want to pop in and say hello and say thanks for all the light you shed out here for the rest of us.

Betsey