Okay .. Good advice HTM.. Just so hard to not think about since this was never an issue before. After reading the forum -- I see that I'm not alone -- by having a spouse that so completely changed.

Sorry to hear that you are dealing with these issues as well.

I am still recovering from my thoracotomy -- so very limited upper body work. Lately just treadmill and stair climber -- lots of cardio. My gym does not offer classes so I need to find a place that does to meet more people.

He has our daughter this weekend so I know I'll be looking for something to do. Maybe I'll check out a Zumba class!


Me: 42
Him: 45
Daughter: 13
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Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years
BD: 8/15/16
Moved out: 8/26/16