Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[JRuss]

Honestly, her main, overarching "symptom" (probably not the right word) is a general dissatisfaction with the life she has right now. She is overwhelmed by the demands of working the job she thought she wanted, still trying to be a good mother and, honestly, I think she sees a split as a way to get some time just to breath and not have quite as much responsibility.

So a lot of my 180s have involved trying to take things off her plate and be more helping than I was pre-BD. That at times runs into NGS/doormat issues, so I'm still trying to figure out the right balance there.