Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[JRuss]

Sandi -- she may have created a fantasy OM in my friend, but I'm pretty close to positive there's no one else, at least not yet. That may be enough to make her full-on WW, I don't know. I can say she is at times disrespectful/antagonistic to me, but she has done none of the more overt things I read about WWs doing here. Doesn't do the Girls Gone Wild thing, isn't dressing inappropriately, etc. I've always had difficulty putting her in one of the DB "boxes". She's certainly dissatisfied with her marriage, certainly doesn't respect me the way she'd need to in a healthy marriage and is fantasizing about a future that gets her out of the marriage. She's maybe more walk-away than wayward, I don't know.