I just want to add that I appreciate that we can all come from different perspectives and can respectfully disagree with one another. If we validated each other AND only agreed with one another's advice, then we would not learn much new, would we?
Keep in mind that I came here because I did everything wrong and failed at DB for a long time! I wonder had I been posting during my separation and taken some (much needed) 2*4s of my own, then perhaps I would have made some better choices. More so, I think I could have avoided some heart ache and suffering.
So I admire you all for coming here and having the courage to share your stories and vulnerabilities!
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
