Yesterday my 32 year anniversary came and went okay. I really didn't get sad at all. If the anniversary was a couple of months ago when my W and I weren't communicating then I'm sure I would have been a blabbering idiot. I busied myself repairing my water heater and getting the house ready for the staging lady to come by later. We did not communicate yesterday.

Early this morning I texted my W a couple of times about some stuff she ordered through Amazon and about her spousal support check. I also told her about the water heater. She ended up calling me about 0530 and we talked for nearly an hour and it didn't seem that long. I didn't ask what she did yesterday or even mention our anniversary. I didn't think about it until the call ended. I'm still amazed I can talk to her on the phone for so long and not notice the time. One of the big regrets I've had since she left me was how much we shut each other out. It's a cliche, but I am rediscovering her and still learning about her even after all these years.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day