Hey..how are things? Hope ok..I know you have been busy with your new job hours and CAW's health issues..it's stressful..take care of yourself.
Can I steal your thread a minute to say hi to Andy?I used to follow your thread way back when..I am not sure if you ever posted to me..but I too have been m 25 years, and I know that letting go of that is heartbreaking...I am so very greatful to be able to say that my m has been turned around..my h is coming back..after almost 2 years apart, and another 3 of slipping apart.I guess I just want to tell you that if you truly believe that you belong with your wife, then don't lose that hope...I prayed for a long time to have my h come back to me, then I read somewhere that that was asking for something that might not be possible..so I asked God to make him happy and to be at peace with his life, and I threw in if that might be with me ok, if not then I would let him go.. but not stop loving him and not hold any anger..knowing that I loved him and that we and 2 great kids and many happy memories. Last fall he talked about doing something "legal", when I was ready..I said I may never be..I detached further..less calls..On super bowl Sunday, he called , came to "talk", of course I thought he was really dropping who knows what..he asked for forgiveness, and wanted to restore our m..and now the work begins again..so keep faith in your heart..no matter what the end is, believe in yourself and your feelings.
