What I've learned is not to overlook signs. I've discovered that people show you who they are really fast and when they do it's important to accept it and move along if their behaviour doesn't mesh with what your want or need. I used to just ignore these signs and tell myself not to jump to conclusions...but any time I did, I regretted it. I believe that when you come from a position of strength you can make those choices readily. I recently had a lady who was wonderful (a friend of a friend) but her sitch was just too much like my last relationship and I knew going there would not be a healthy choice for me...so I didn't go there. I felt badly and she was disappointed but setting myself up for another unhealthy relationship is not where I want to go. So hang in there and trust your instincts with men...as you said, you knew early on that your last relationship wasn't going where you wanted it. You are an amazing lady and there is someone out there who will see that and fight to keep you! Trust in the G's...God and Ginger!
