Hi KAW - Just wanted to pop in to say it is great to see you back on the boards, and sounding more upbeat than 3 weeks ago. I'm glad the tests came back ok, Lord knows things are complicated enough
Quote: This one is tricky, because she felt I was moving on without her during the M, so she had felt I'm capable. When I backed off last spring, it was also an attempt by me to say ... OK if you're gonna do your thing ... I'll show you can start doing my thing again, but with a twist and that was to keep my daughters more involved in what I was doing ... Went to movies with them when CAW didn't want to go ... took day trips to parks & playgrounds ... spent a lot of time making the yard nice again ... went to computer & car shows ... got more involve in some hobbies that I had shelved since the bomb, etc...
You know, I'm wondering if there is another side to this. My H too knows I'm capable of moving on without him, and I often wonder if he is hanging on to OW as a back up in case I am no longer around? Is there a way of showing them, convincingly, that we can move on, but choose not to?
Try as we may to avoid it, we do nevertheless get sucked into their drama, don't we? Take care, KAW. Hugs, Slowly
