It's nice to see some activity over here on Piecing!
I don't have any great advice in the trust issue. It has to be hard, working with OW.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16