I think I've said before that my kids are close with Mr. Fantastic's girlfriend's three younger kids. D13 is in several classes at school with The Fantastic Girlfriend's middle child. So Mr. Fantastic is out of town this week, missed his weekly one-on-one with whoever's turn it was, and will be missing an important kid event this weekend (my weekend with them but one neither of us ever misses regardless who the kids are staying with). But last night when D13 was snapchatting with FGF's son, she realized he was at her dad's house. Do I bring this up to her dad? She was startled and kind of hurt and definitely didn't understand what he was doing there. But she is OPPOSED to making waves. I didn't know how to handle it in the moment and I wish Mr. Fantastic would just clarify the situation for everybody so these moments didn't happen. He & the FGF have been together about a year now.
What to do?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
