Originally Posted By: ForGump
AP -- thanks for the cheerleading. I need it. Clean boxers, every day now.

CT -- no, I cannot flirt w/ random women in bookstores. And I certainly cannot get up at 5am to jog! But your point is well taken. Stretch my wings, see what that feels like. It will be hard for me -- because right now things just don't feel right for my kids -- but I will try.


Wasn't CT's advice for your work trip? Your kids won't be with you, right? So there should be no reason you can't stretch yourself a bit to do something just for you.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16