Originally Posted By: BluWave
Originally Posted By: SH_


I don't think feelings change.....
Because feelings are a choice of response to an emotion.
An emotion is a built in protection system for humans



If feelings don't change because they are a choice does that mean that choices don't change either? Somehow it feels as if my feelings are often changing without my choosing. ... That or someone slipped something in my drink because I am confused!!!

Save me from myself, SH! :-)))

-Blu

Blu, It's late, but I do want to respond.
If you have a chance, google it as I mentioned, as there is much info.
And then tomorrow we can chat a bit, because this is a topic that has much of my attention now.....my anxiety and depression issue after BD scared the hell out of me and I have to understand this....unbelievable the info on this, but it is so empowering.....
D18 is my living proof of this....
Can't wait to share with you and get your insightful thoughts as you look into it.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine