Sweet Cherry, When you're monitoring his behaviour, how does it make you feel?
Any time you feel like you're on a rollercoaster, you should pull back on your monitoring. Monitoring works best when you can entertain the thought of the behaviour without being negatively influenced by it.
Monitor, journal and then file away in a drawer that will not affect your emotional wellbeing.
Keep strong, Cherry.
Once again Grl, you show the world why you are one of my favorite DBer's around this neighborhood.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
