Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 4)

[ForGump]

I like what lt0402 said about drawing your confidence.

Your W might be driving the bus, but you're the one w/ the right map, you're the one truly concerned for the passengers. You're the only adult on the bus. You might feel jerked around, but you're the one with integrity and heart for what matters. She can't take that away from you -- nobody can.