I want to clarify something that I posted to you so that you have a better understanding of what I said and then you can go back to the other forum and provide a proper explanation of your recent statement there. If you are going to post something that I stated to you, please get the facts straight, i.e., time period correct...I didn't say 12-18 months.
I said: "Your wife's MLC started before the bomb drop. It actually started 18-24 months before the bomb. When the bomb hits, it's already picking up speed."
This is what happens in most cases. Between 18-24 months, something clicks w/the person in crisis. Something happens that sets the crisis in motion. Generally it is a death, birth, new job, loss of job, health issue, etc. The 18-24 months is a lead up to the bomb drop. During this time period, the person begins to think about themselves more, they feel depressed, sad and take a look around and may think that they've not accomplished as much as they had hoped for or they feel that they've worked and we only look at them as a paycheck. They become dissatisfied and feel unappreciated and one day, they suddenly drop the bomb of not being happy for "x" number of years, we didn't appreciate them, they see us as controlling, etc., the list goes on and on. Once the bomb hits, the crisis has already been in motion for quite some time and is going full speed ahead.
After reading your recent postings, I am still of the opinion that she's not in MLC, but possibly a WAW. Again, you will use the same DB info for a WAW as you would a MLCer.
Now, I'm going to give you space and leave you alone.
