By now both of my kids have noticed that one of us is on the couch and asked why. My IC thinks we should let them know we're having marriage trouble (w/o going into details). But I've only had the heart to just brush off their question by saying it's just more comfortable this way right now. But "divorce" is not on my kids' radar, whereas it appears your kids are much more afraid of it. Just heart breaking, the whole thing.
I don't know how you can be stronger, JR. Don't know....
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final