Reminder to self (and others):

Dating someone during the aftermath of this mess is rarely a good idea. Just ends up with more pain and sadness.

Lesson learned the hard way because I didn't heed the warnings...

Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015