You are in the right place and mindset to handle thins now, Tyler. Last Spring, I wouldn't have been able today that. If what you just posted in truly how you will handle this weekend, then you are truly ready. Detach, be the best person you can be for YOU and your BOYS!!

No one else matters in this, especially not the person who threw you away like a trash bag and then continually tried to egg you into arguments by binging OM around, borrowed money from you never to be seen again, and generally treated you as a lesser-than.