Well X is still kicking. He filed the paperwork with the court to cease maintenance. Our case doesn't go in front of the court commissioner until November and I am not stressing about it. It's all up to how the commissioner reads things and our divorce agreement specifically states maintenance terminates upon remarriage of the recipient, not cohabitation. It is what it is.
But I wish you all could read the paperwork he submitted to the courts. Basically whining that NG has a boat and a pool and we are remodeling the house (we have re-painted one bedroom since I moved in). Also he noted that NG and I have a substantial savings account which we are using for a new home construction. How he thinks he knows all these details is beyond me.
He also requested that until we appear in court that all funds the child support order holds from his check for maintenance payments be held from me and placed into a "trust". At the end of the proceedings, these funds shall be released to me if I agree to accept them as a final settlement to the property division set forth in the divorce. In other words, if I want that money, he wants me to sign off on the $3,000 I would get if he sold the house.
He is up to something.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"