I wish I had a pony...or could walk again. If wishes were horses; beggars would ride.
Amy,
How to control the thoughts in your head, do you know what GALing means?
Get A Life.
Do something fun, do something you like, do something that makes you grow.
We learn that its hard to control those thoughts so we put more and different thoughts in our heads to hopefully think about something else.
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I knew things were rocky the last year or so, but he blamed it on work and stuff .. but we used to be happy. Or am I crazy????
Well one of you is crazy. Is it you or the guy who suddenly says he was unhappy for 8.5 years and only just now said something about it?
Did Cadet give you a list of threads about MLC when you first got here? If he did...please read them it should give you alot of insight about the LBSer (you) and the MLCer (your husband)
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
