Any tips on how to control the thoughts in your head? I am sitting here thinking about my marriage. I am driving myself crazy re-analyzing stuff and wishing I could go back and make changes.
I am still so new to this and the pain is so much right now. I just miss him so much and hate the feeling of lost that I am going through.
The man that talks to me now -- about our daughter or our upcoming divorce -- is not the man I knew. I just got an email from him a few days ago stating he has been miserable for 1/2 our marriage. You were miserable for 8 1/2 years and did not tell me. Seriously?!?!
I knew things were rocky the last year or so, but he blamed it on work and stuff .. but we used to be happy. Or am I crazy????
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16