Confused on What to Do 2

[Jack_Three_Beans]

So she was laying in bed texting another man at 1:15 in the morning with my son right there next to her.

Well it's not like she was asking him for advice on what to say.
If he wasn't right next to her, he'd have been in the room down the hall...and if you want to get REALLY mad your other son is in the house too!!

Eagle, you have every reason in the world to be mad and upset, the idea is at this point in time with your current "how the heck do I handle this part of MLC" is to NOT get upset, not get into fights and you're doing GREAT...right up until you start thinking that somehow her texting the OM near one of your boys is somehow corrupting them.

Stop using your kids as an excuse to get pi55ed off. They aren't. She isn't involving them, she is just texting near them. Stop letting this be your excuse to lose your crap.